Post-Emily: be Savvy this V-Day. Forget Hallmark.
Ledger Column: A sassy take on modern-day femininity. Inspired by famed etiquette guru and author Emily Post.
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Issue date: 2/2/10 Section: Arts & Entertainment
When you are in an established relationship:
At this point, you have probably had plenty of cheesy Valentine's Day adventures. Though, at this stage if a relationship most people stop putting so much emphasis on this day. But it is important not to take a relationship for granted - make an effort. If you know your girlfriend loves Valentine's Day and buys a brand new red pair of heels every year, you better surprise her with something special. Again, it doesn't have to be your typical candlelit dinner, but be sure not to plan a hiking trip if she is the red heel fanatic. Just saying, that might not end well. Maybe it's wine and cheese and a movie in your PJ's at home - make the night about enjoying each other's company. Who knows, you might have been so busy with work or school that Valentine's Day is that break that helps the two of you come together.
If you've been dating for several years the biggest minefield is probably whether or not to get engaged on Valentine's Day, which tends to be a popular time for popping the question. Take a little advice, don't give in to this pressure unless you are seriously feeling it is the perfect moment. But if there is the slightest doubt about it, there are 365 days in the year. Pick another one. If you are not at that stage yet, a gift that shows how much you respect, love, and know your partner is the best bet. It may not be the most romantic thing to get, but maybe some long underwear for the sweetheart that is always cold could be both thoughtful and funny. A nice piece of jewelry that is NOT a ring is always a good way to go as well.
Enjoy this Valentine's Day to the fullest, but remember, no expectations equals no disappointments.
At this point, you have probably had plenty of cheesy Valentine's Day adventures. Though, at this stage if a relationship most people stop putting so much emphasis on this day. But it is important not to take a relationship for granted - make an effort. If you know your girlfriend loves Valentine's Day and buys a brand new red pair of heels every year, you better surprise her with something special. Again, it doesn't have to be your typical candlelit dinner, but be sure not to plan a hiking trip if she is the red heel fanatic. Just saying, that might not end well. Maybe it's wine and cheese and a movie in your PJ's at home - make the night about enjoying each other's company. Who knows, you might have been so busy with work or school that Valentine's Day is that break that helps the two of you come together.
If you've been dating for several years the biggest minefield is probably whether or not to get engaged on Valentine's Day, which tends to be a popular time for popping the question. Take a little advice, don't give in to this pressure unless you are seriously feeling it is the perfect moment. But if there is the slightest doubt about it, there are 365 days in the year. Pick another one. If you are not at that stage yet, a gift that shows how much you respect, love, and know your partner is the best bet. It may not be the most romantic thing to get, but maybe some long underwear for the sweetheart that is always cold could be both thoughtful and funny. A nice piece of jewelry that is NOT a ring is always a good way to go as well.
Enjoy this Valentine's Day to the fullest, but remember, no expectations equals no disappointments.
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